I-Destiny Eshintshanisa: Ukuhlola ukujula kobudlelwano bomphefumulo

Ibhayibheli lithi lapho uJonathani eseqedile ukukhuluma neNkosi uSawule, umphefumulo wakhe wahlangana nomphefumulo kaDavide. Lezi ezimbili zazinobuhlobo obuqinile kangangokuba imiphefumulo yabo yahlanganiswa ndawonye. Kepha abaningi abaqondi ukuthi kungani imiphefumulo kaDavide noJonathani kwadingeka ihlangane ndawonye. Isizathu esenza ukuba imiphefumulo yabo yahlatshwa ndawonye kwaba ngoba uNkulunkulu wayefuna ukuba njalo.

Okokuqala, kudingeka uqonde ukuthi uJonathani wayezoba yinkosi emva kukaYise, uSawule. Kepha nokho, uNkulunkulu wayesekhethwe uDavide. Ngokusho kwemithetho engokomoya nengokomzimba, uDavide wayengeke abe yinkosi ngaphandle kokuthi uJonathan uqobo wayidonsa isihlalo sobukhosi kuDavide. Ngakho-ke, uJonathani, ngokomoya, wawuyindlalifa yize uDavide ayekhethiweyo. Isikhumbuzi, kwakunguNkulunkulu owenze uSawule inkosi yakwa-Israyeli. Ukuphela kwendlela uDavid ayengaba yiNkosi kwakuyobe bekungukubulala uJonathan. Kepha nokho, uNkulunkulu wayengafuni ukuba ifa libangelwe ukubulala inkosi ngenxa yokuthi izomthinta kanjani u-Israyeli neqiniso lokuthi uSawule ngokwakhe wagcotshwa futhi wabekwa uNkulunkulu. Ngakho-ke, ngoba uDavide athathe isikhundla sikaJonathan, kwadingeka ashintshe izindawo zawo noma imiphefumulo yawo kwakufanele zihlangene.

Ake ngikuchaze lokhu ngendlela elula. Ngenxa yokuthi uJonathani wayezoba yinkosi, uDavide wayengaba yinkosi kuphela uma umphefumulo wakhe futhi kaJonathani exhunyiwe. UDavida wagcotshwa, kwaqokwa uJonathani. Ngakho-ke, bobabili abagcotshiweyo nabamisiwe kwadingeka ukuthi kuthathwe umphefumulo kuDavide ukuba akwazi ukufinyelela esihlalweni sobukhosi.

Ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kwalowo mphefumulo, uDavide, yize wayegcotshwe, akakwazi ukuba yinkosi kwa-Israyeli. Ukuphela kwendlela Angahlala ngayo kulesosihlalo sobukhosi uma ethatha impilo kaJonathani, futhi wakwenza lokho ngomphefumulo uthayi hhayi ngenkemba. Ukube uJonathan ulahlekelwa yisihlalo sakhe sobukhosi ngenxa yesibopho somphefumulo, zingakanani izinto ezilahlekelwe yizibopho ezingafuneki. Lapho ulala nesifebe, uba nyamanye nesifebe, okusho ukuthi phakathi nalezo zingcwabo, kwaba nokushintshana. Noma yimuphi umuntu ozithola uhlanganyela nabo ngocansi, uhlangana nabo, futhi umphefumulo wabo uba ngumphefumlo wakho.

Imiphefumulo yomphefumulo kufanele yephulwe. Qaphela, izibopho zomphefumulo azenzeki nje ngenxa yobulili. Amanye amathayi omphefumlo kufanele aphulwe ngoba umphefumulo uthayi ukushintshaniswa kwesiphetho. Lapho ukhuzwa umphefumulo womunye umuntu, kukonakalisa ikusasa lakho, ikakhulukazi uma umphefumulo uthathwa ubengekho ohlelweni lukaNkulunkulu ngenjongo yakho. UDavida noJonathani abalalanga; Kwakungenxa yesifungo nje, ngamazwi. Lokhu kwenzeke ngenxa yamagama akhulunywa lapho othile enemizwa. Ngakho-ke, qaphela imizwa ethile ngoba ikuxhumanisa nabantu ongafanele ukuthi uxhumeke kuwo. Uyazi ukuthi ngisho nabangane abanemiphefumulo yabo abahlanganiswe ndawonye ngoba benza izithembiso ezingazibeki yini ukuthi ziyakha uthayi?

Lapho ulala nesifebe, uba nyama munye nesifebe. Ibhayibheli lithi umyeni uyakushiya uyise nonina futhi anamathele kumkayo; lokho kuthathwa komphefumulo. Inhloso yomphefumlo uthayi ukuvumela umyeni nenkosikazi ukuthi bahlale ndawonye, ​​ukusebenza esimweni esifanayo ngaphandle kokuphazamisana noma kuthintane. Ngakho-ke, inhloso yomphefumlo uthayi ukuvumela abalingani ukuthi bafeze inhloso kaNkulunkulu ngokuphila kwabo. Uma nje uhlanganyela ngokubambisana, ngokwesivumelwano, imiphefumulo yakho ihlanganiswe. Lokhu kubambisana akukhona ngezenzo zobulili kuphela; Kungaba ngamagama lapho isango lemizwa lisebenza khona.

Umuntu wephula kanjani umphefumulo uthayi? Ngokwephula ibhuloho lemizwelo edale uthayi futhi uzikhulula ekuxhumaneni ngamagama ngokukhuluma ngokumelene nohlelo. Kufanele uyilahle; Kufanele ukhulume ngokumelene nakho. Izikhathi eziningi, abantu abaningi bahlupheka ngoba abakakhulumanga ngokuphikisana nezinto ababoshelwe zona ngokomoya. Kufanele ume uthi, "Baba, ngibonise noma yikuphi ukuxhumana enginakho enginakho nanoma ngubani ongangithinta kabi, okungathinta impilo yami nesiphetho sami." Lapho u-Esawu enikezwa isobho, igama lakhe laguqulwa. Isenzo esisodwa sishintsha izindawo. Ngakho-ke, ukhiye ukuthandaza, okokuqala, ukuze uNkulunkulu aveze. Lapho uNkulunkulu esembulile, uthandazela imithandazo yokulahla, imithandazo yokubhubhisa. "Ubaba ngizinqamula kunoma yikuphi ukudicilela phansi noma ukuxhumana okwafakwa umphefumulo wami ku- ... Ngemuva kokulahla noma ukucekela phansi, kufanele utshale okuthile esikhundleni salokho okuchithile. Udinga ukuthandaza ngokubuyiselwa nokugcwalisa kabusha ngokuthi, "Baba, vusa inhloso yami futhi wenze umphefumulo wami ulungiswe lapho waphulwa khona lapho unginike khona esibelethweni sami." I-Soul Ties ingaphulwa. Inkosi ikubusise.