Ukuqomisana KobuKristu: I-Youd futhi Ayihlotshisiwe
NguHumphrey Mthandawa
ngezibalo zesehlukaniso ekukhuphukeni kokubili esontweni nasemhlabeni, omunye wamangala kungaba yimbangela. Umphostoli uPhawuli ekhuluma nebandla laseKhorinte kusho amakholwa akufanele ajongeke ejokeni linye ngokunganakwa. Ukuboshelwa ukubhejwa kubhekisele kwizinkabi ezimbili ezihlanganiswe ndawonye ukuze zisebenze ngokubambisana. Ukuboshelwa ejokeni ngokwezinga bese kusho ukuthi lezi zinkamo azisiwo amandla alinganayo nokuthi zingabi bhekiswe ngokungenwa yini, azenzi umsebenzi wazo kahle. Kuyisitatimende sangempela ngoba lokho okwenza umshado omuhle yikhono lokusebenzisana ngokubheka inhloso eyodwa futhi iningi liphetha ngokuthi ukungabotshwa ngokungelona iqiniso ukuthi lapho ikholwa lishada nomuntu ongakholwayo. Kodwa ingabe uyazi ukuthi bobabili abantu bangaba amakholwa, kepha bangabelani ngemibono efanayo? Ukuboshelwa okungalingani kungaphezu kwemigqa yenkolelo yenkolo kumaphupho kanye nezifiso zabantu. Abaningi bashadene ngoba baye esontweni elifanayo. Kepha nobabili ningaba esontweni elifanayo futhi bobabili bakholelwa kwizimfundiso ezifanayo kodwa bengafani ukuthi baboshwe ndawonye.
Izibalo zesehlukaniso ziphakeme ngoba abantu bagcotshwa abantu abangakaze bashade. Injongo eyinhloko yokumshada ukugcwalisa iphupho likaNkulunkulu kubantu ababili ababopheka ndawonye. Ngakho-ke, umuntu ngamunye uphethe izinkinobho zokufeza lo msebenzi nokuthi lezi zikhiye zixhunyiwe, bazalwa ukuthi le nto uNkulunkulu abona ngayo lapho edala bobabili. Ngakho-ke, ukusesha umlingani wakho kuba ukufuna umuntu okulethela endaweni yokuphelela kwakho. Akumangalisi lapho uNkulunkulu adala u-Eva, wathi owesilisa wadinga umlingani wosizo.
Kunomuntu othize wosizo womshado ngamunye ngamunye. ke iBhayibheli lithi lapho indoda ethola umfazi, uthola into enhle. Owesifazane unezela ukubaluleka empilweni yomyeni wakhe ngoba iBhayibheli lithi ngemuva kokuba umyeni etholile umfazi, iNkosi inika lowo muntu ovumayo. Kukhona ukusesha ngoba ibhayibheli lithi Uthole umfazi, kuwufuna umuntu ongakusiza ukufeza umsebenzi awunikezwe uNkulunkulu. U-Adamu wanikezwa umngane womshado ngemuva kokuthola injongo yakhe. Ukufuna kwendoda yomfazi ongabhejwa ngokulinganayo kubo kulula lapho umuntu eqonda inhloso yawo nesifiso sikaNkulunkulu ngawo. Abaningi bashada ngoba baqhutshwa yimizwelo ababengeke bakwazi ukubona ubuthakathaka bozakwethu nokuthi akanawo amandla okuboshelwa kubo. Abaningi bakhala futhi bathi "Lokhu akusikho lokho akwenza ngesikhathi sokuthandana futhi washintsha lapho sishada". Kepha lokho akulona iqiniso, ngikhumbula intokazi esehlukanisile ngoba umyeni wahlukumeza futhi uzomshaya kaningi. Ngambuza ukuthi ngabe akazange afunde izibonakaliso ayehlukumeza ngaphambi komshado. Izikhathi eziningi, abantu bavale amehlo abo ezibonakaliso abakubonayo, njengalapho ememeza futhi acishe bakushaye lapho usekutheleleni. Isikhathi sokuthandana sikuvumela ukuthi utadishe futhi unqume ukuthi ngabe uyabhalwa ngokulinganayo noma wabelana ngamaphupho afanayo; Ingabe unazo izinto ezikhathazekile? Ungazinaki izimpawu noma ukholelwe umuntu uzoshintsha lapho usushadile. Abanye besifazane abasebasha babhajwe emshadweni ngoba becabanga ukuthi bangamshintsha noma acabanga ukuthi angamshintsha. Umshado akusona isilingo, lapho wenza isinqumo sokuba ukushada uthandazele kusengaphambili futhi ucele uNkulunkulu akusize ubone ngalapho imizwa engokomzwelo. Ungabhekwanga ngokungalingani! Inkosi ikubusise.
